Eating Disorders & Disordered Eating

Specialized, evidence-based care for eating disorders and disordered eating across life stages, including pregnancy, postpartum, and midlife.

Eating disorders are serious, treatable mental health conditions. They affect how you eat—and how you think and feel about food, your body, and control.

Eating disorders don’t just happen to teenagers—they often persist or emerge in adulthood.

Many women who seek care are high-functioning in work or at home. From the outside, things may look “fine.” Internally, eating, body image, or food-related thoughts can feel rigid, overwhelming, or out of control.

What is an Eating Disorder?

A mental health condition that disrupts eating patterns and body-related thoughts in ways that harm health and daily life.

Eating disorders are more common in women and affect about 2–5% of people over their lifetime.

Common diagnoses include:

    • Restricting food intake

    • Intense fear of weight gain

    • Distorted sense of body shape or size

    • Highest mortality rate of any psychiatric condition

  • Repeated binge eating followed by behaviors to “compensate” such as vomiting, laxatives, or overexercise

    • Recurrent episodes of eating large amounts of food with a sense of loss of control

    • No regular compensatory behaviors

    • Other Specified Feeding or Eating Disorder

    • Symptoms are serious but don’t fit neatly into one category

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What is “disordered eating”?

Disordered eating includes patterns that may not meet full diagnostic criteria but still affect health and wellbeing.

  • Skipping meals or chronic dieting

  • Rigid food rules

  • Binge eating or chaotic eating

  • Purging or overexercise

  • Intense body dissatisfaction

These patterns can affect mood, sleep, relationships, fertility, and long-term health.

Why symptoms change across a woman’s life

Common Co-occurring Conditions

ADHD

ADHD and eating disorders often overlap.

You may notice:

  • Impulsive eating or binge episodes

  • Difficulty planning meals

  • Going long periods without eating, then overeating

  • Feeling overwhelmed by food decisions

Treatment focuses on creating structure—such as scheduled meals, simple plans, and reducing decision fatigue.

Mood and Anxiety disorders

Depression and anxiety are very common in eating disorders.

They may show up as:

  • Loss of motivation to eat or prepare food

  • Using food to cope or numb emotions

  • Rigid food rules

  • Fear of weight gain

Treating both the eating disorder and underlying mood symptoms is essential.

A note on high-functioning women

Many women delay seeking help because they are still meeting expectations in daily life.

But functioning is not the same as well-being.

If eating, food, or body-related thoughts are taking up too much space in your life, that is reason enough to seek support.

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Treatment & Recovery

Meds & Therapy

Medication can be helpful — but it’s not a standalone treatment.

Evidence-based therapies include:

  • CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy)

  • MANTRA: group therapy for anorexia focused on thinking styles, emotions and identity.

The focus is on improving patterns—not changing weight.

Integrated Care Team

Collaborative care works best for eating disorders. Your team may include:

  • Therapist

  • Psychiatric provider

  • Registered dietitian

  • Medical clinician

  • OB-GYN or other specialists when needed

What you can do now

Start with observation, not judgement.

  • Track eating, mood, sleep, and menstrual cycle

  • Notice patterns across weeks, not single days

  • Share this information with your clinician

If you are pregnant or postpartum, share any past or current eating disorder history with your care team.

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When to seek help

You may benefit from support if you:

  • Feel preoccupied with food or body image

  • Experience bingeing, purging, or restriction

  • Notice patterns that feel difficult to control

  • Feel shame or secrecy around eating

  • See symptoms worsen during life transitions

You do not need a formal diagnosis to seek care.

You don’t have to manage this alone

Support can help you understand patterns, reduce symptoms, and feel more stable in your relationship with food and your body.